Be a silent player
Be a silent player and not a violent player. Here, players doesn’t only mean sport, you can be a player in someone’s life too. When you play, make sure you play to win hearts and not to create distance. Players who play politely and silently are the one’s who are remembered. If you are playing a role model in someone’s life, make sure, you play a character which they can trust on, and not the one which can leave them broken. A violent player will not only destroy the reputation of his own, but also the origin he represents.